
Reader, I Divorced Him
In the book forum, Hermione Hobby is thinking of a stuffed animal shelf, a contemporary novel/memoir of divorce. And although she doesn’t directly inspect all four, all of her ideas apply there. She sets the questions I think I’m welcome:
Why should divorces between the US and the UK be finally on the rise, and should have this literary salience when it has become so prevalent in fate and not as legally hampered as ever? The question becomes more inexplicable when you note that some books in question are written overwhelmingly by a woman of sorts. She is white, straight (or at least separated from men), cisgender, middle class, and in her 30s or 40s – a professional writer before her divorce, she remains one after that. In other words, she belongs to one of the demographics where members are least likely to be socially or economically punished for getting out of marriage. I’m friendly with some of these women. It is familiarity, primarily based on admiration for their work. What baffles me, however, is that divorce has increased the importance of literature to the extent that marriage confiscated social meaning.
What I might quiz here might actually suggest that the prevalence and popularity of these books reduces literary importance. The fact that these authors want to write them and that they seem to have a decent reader for them doesn’t necessarily mean that they are important. Rather, divorce stories are so common that they are now their own minigenre, with the normal beasts of early happiness, the heightened frustration, the moments of decisive change, the bumpy aftermath, and (usually) some final recovery It’s target. And, like the happy ending of romance novels, the experience of reading the trials and hardships of divorce stories is satisfied in their own way. The lack of introspection hobbies is identified in these books. As it is, as they say, it’s not a bug, it’s a feature.
