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Book- meaningful conversation (less, more things)
(Hindi translation of New York Times Bestseller book ‘The Next Conversation’)
Author- Jefferson Fisher
Translation- Shailendra Gautam
Publisher- Penguin publication
Price- Rs 399
The ‘meaningful conversation’ is the first book by American writer, speaker and profession lawyer Jefferson Fisher. As soon as he was published, his book became New York Times Bestseller, which shows its popularity and impact.
This self-help book by Jefferson Fisher teaches us how to make the conversation more effective and confident. Whether it is about personal life or professional environment, this book proves to be helpful everywhere.
The purpose of the book is the objective of this book to teach readers to interact better, so that they can create a strong relationship in their personal and professional life. It tells how to handle difficult conversations, avoid quarrels and how to keep your point with confidence.
Jefferson Fisher has presented several practical strategies to improve communication in the book, the essential lessons of this book. Some of these are prominent.
Understand the internal troubles of the people Fisher believes that most of the disputes are born not by the behavior of the people, but from hidden pain or trouble within them.
When we get entangled in disagreement with someone, we need to think that they may be struggling with some internal struggle. In such a situation, the relationship can improve with sympathy and calm response.
Pay attention to the next conversation, every conversation is a new chance. If there is an argument or conflict with someone last time, something new and positive can be started next time instead of repeating that experience. Instead of catching the past things, we should move towards improvement.
Create control during communication. When someone makes us angry or says a prick, our first reaction is to turn back. But Fisher says that the fastest way to lose your mental balance is to show someone anger.
Maintain connection in the conversation, not only speaking, it is also necessary to have understanding and relationship with the front. In the conversation, it should be seen that you are giving importance to their words, not only. This makes the person in front communicate with more comfortable and open mind.
Set up peace with difficult people when someone humiliates you or tries to let you down, the most effective answer is. A long silence.
“When someone thinks you trivial or small, a long poses are your greatest strength.”
During this time, you understand their point, recognize the intentions and reply by being humble but firmly. It is more effective to set boundaries with respect, not with anger.
Create healthy boundaries and retain if someone is uncomfortable with your fixed limit, it means that the boundary is working. So when you feel uncomfortable in something, then say ‘no’ without hesitation, thank you.
Handle sensitive conversation carefully when you want to talk on an emotional issue, do not hurry it. First, decide the time, leave small things and come to the root of the issue, give the front one a chance to speak and ask the open, sensible questions.
During the conversation, learn to control emotions. Fisher says that in the conversation it is necessary to control your feelings first. If you are feeling stressed, then adopt special breathing techniques. For example, breathe in 2 seconds, stop 1 second and leave slowly in 6 seconds. This keeps the brain calm.
Connecting conversations and pursue the conversation, the conversation is not only to say your point, but also to make a relationship with others. Fisher says that listening carefully and showing sympathy helps to understand others.
Talking to people in a comfortable way can sometimes be challenging with people with strict behavior. Fisher suggests to take a little break in the conversation, so that the person in front can think on his point and remains calm.
Also, ask about their intentions directly, like ‘Why are you saying so?’ This can make the situation clear.
It is necessary to set limits and maintain its limits for healthy relationships. Fisher says that while saying ‘no’, speak clearly, thank the front and finish the conversation politely.
The style of the book is simple, practical and for readers of all classes. The book includes real -life stories, such as their advocacy experience. The language of the book is simple and motivational, which makes it a better book for every age group.
My opinion about the book suggests many easy ways to improve the book Communication Skills. Jefferson Fisher has shared his personal experience in the book.
The examples given in it are based on life and real circumstances, which you can easily adopt in your life.
Who should read this book, if you want to improve your conversation, then this book can prove to be helpful for you. This book can help you strengthen personal and professional relations.
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